So all major sporting events are being cancelled. Many smaller business/vendors are closing in some areas. If you live in one of these areas, what should you do?

Many are looking for stress relief and are feeling bored isolated at home.

Many are already posting about the potential baby boom we may see, as we are secluding ourselves at home.

At the moment, kink events and munches are also being cancelled. I typically endorse sex positivity (while being safe, of course), and alternative relationship, aka consensual non-monogamy, BDSM play, etc.

Is it safe right now to engage in these activities? At a time where we are avoiding hand-shaking? Sex and any BDSM play includes close contact. Most of the time, that’s what we are craving. So if you participate it in right now, I don’t judge you, but if you are looking for some safer alternatives, I provided a list. What other alternatives can you think of?


1. Masturbate.
2. Sex or BDSM play only with primary partner(s) you live with, for the time being.
3. Journaling, write down those sexy fantasies.
4. Organize your toys.
5. Sexting.
6. Take time for negotiating scenes you want to have in the future by phone, Skype or Facetime.
7. Watch or read erotica.
8. Take up a new hobby. Put that energy into something else.
9. Interested in providing service? Learn a new skill. Create a service resume.
10. In an authority-based relationship? Create your household manual or contract.
11. Have a household manual? Review and revise it. My Sir and I will be working on ours this week.
12. New to Kink? Write out your hard and soft limits. Everyone has them.

Whatever you do, stay safe and wash your hands!