Why do you want to submit? Why do you want to be a Dominant?

In episode 7 of DISIRabilityALT, I share my journey into 24/7 power exchange dynamics. Please listen to/read the content warning in the beginning of the episode. http://disirability.castos.com. Image description: [Text: Why do you desire to submit? or Why do you desire to be a dominant? from Episode 7 Share your thoughts with me at http://www.disirability.com. Image of crocheted M/s flag scarf] Subscribe and share, rate and review the podcast!

Join me tomorrow night, 7/24/20 for Dating Kinky Presents Speaking Kinkly!

Image Description [ Drawing of a Person carrying lots of baggage in multiple colors, wearing sneakers. Top Text “Dating Kinky Presents Speaking Kinkly.” Middle Text in pink background “Claiming Your Baggage. Naming what you bring with you to your Alt Relationship with Angela Car of DISIRability.com.” Bottom text in purple background “8pm ET, Every Fourth Friday, Free to join live! http://datingkinky.com/communication”

Join the discussion at http://datingkinky.com/communication Friday, June 24, 2020 at 8pm.

How do you handle jealousy in a relationship?

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Episode 6 “A Chat with the Polyamorous Librarian” is available now! At the end of every episode, I’ll be posting a question for you to consider. Today’s question is How do you handle jealousy in a relationship?

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this question in the comment section below. With your permission, I would also love to discuss some of your thoughts on the next episode!

Be sure to check out Episode 6, A Chat with the Polyamorous Librarian at http://disirabilityalt.castos.com. Subscribe on Apple, Google, Stitcher or Spotify so you don’t miss an episode!

Let me know what you think of the show by leaving me a rating and review!

Episode 6 A Chat with the Polyamorous Librarian

Episode 6 airs tomorrow, Monday, July 13, 2020. Visit http://disirabilityalt.castos.com. Subscribe and leave a review!

I am so excited to be interviewing my first guest. My co-host is my friend Allie Phelan who is the Polyamorous Librarian! I have known Allie for several years since I started going to poly meetups. I started off thinking this would be Poly 101 discussion but listening to Allie, I learned some new things that I had never considered. Allie talked about shared language, words and their meanings, the importance of community, jealousy and compersion, and coming out as polyamorous. Enjoy this episode!

Allie mentions this book in the episode:  “It’s called Polyamory. Coming Out About Your Non-Monogamous Relationships” by Tamara Pincus and Rebecca Hiles, Thorntree Press.

You can find Allie’s word press site here: https://polyamorouslibrarian.wordpress.com/. You can also connect with her on Facebook or  @HelloLibrarian on Twitter. 

Full transcript of this episode can be found at this link:

https://docs.google.com/document/d/16kES_hH2fDJxmOyhKdHnjaU6Zhj4jTVi2O7183QyX38/edit?usp=sharing

  [Image description: DISIRability logo in green with a wheelchair symbol in place of the b. “ALT” written in black underneath. In a red background, there is the writing to the left, “A Chat with the Polyamorous Librarian”  There is a black and white photo of Allie Phelan looking up on the right. Above the photo is the description “Allie Phelan, (she/her)”. On the left bottom corner it states “Angela Car [she/her] 18+”.

 
©DISIRability, Angela Car 2020

Kinkability Virtual Panel with Disability Pride Philadelphia

I am so excited to be a panelist at this event! Join us Saturday, July 11th 8pm est

https://www.disabilitypridephiladelphia.org/disability-pride-virtual-pa-calendar

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What does aftercare look like for you when you have a disability? Question for Episode 5

Episode 5 “A Pain I Choose. Accessing BDSM” is available now! At the end of every episode, I’ll be posting a question for you to consider. Today’s question is

“What does aftercare look like for you? Are there things you require in aftercare due to your disability? This is something you’ll want to think about before you consider playing, so you can tell your partner what you require in aftercare before you play.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this question in the comment section below. With your permission, I would also love to discuss some of your thoughts on the next episode!

#ShamelessSelfpromoSaturday

Episode 5 of DISIRabilityALT will be aired on Monday, 6/29/20. Get ready!

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©DISIRability, Angela Car 2020

Question for Episode 4

At the end of each episode of DISIRabilityALT, I will be asking a question for you to consider. The question at the end of Episode 3 is, “How can we support people with disabilities coming into the kink scene?“.  I share my thoughts on this question in Episode 4, but I would love to hear your thoughts.

Tune in to episode 4 where I will discuss Pride, coming out as bisexual and queer, and tips to support queer and disabled folx in the kink community.

Please share your thoughts with me on this blog. Let me know if I can share your thoughts on an upcoming episode! If I have enough response, I would love to include comments from my followers in my podcast.

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Thank you for supporting DISIRabilityALT!

Question for Episode 2

At the end of each episode of DISIRabilityALT, I will be asking a question for you to consider. The question at the end of Episode 2 is, “As a disabled person, how do I meet people and find a relationship?”. I share my thoughts on this question in Episode 3, but I would love to hear your thoughts.

Please share your thoughts with me on this blog and please let me know if I can share your thoughts on an upcoming episode! If I have enough response, I would love to include comments from my followers in my podcast.

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I am listening.

There is a lot of hate, ignorance and violence in the world right now. I pray this all stops. I am listening. What would happen if we all would listen? I pray we can come to a place of understanding, peaceful resolution and reform.